its always the little things

small joys....the large extra-grumpy lady behind the counter at the Tabac knew my brand today, and held them out on the counter the minute i entered, with a knowing smirk that turned into....a smile!! at Da Cito, our usual family Saturday night dinner out spot, Monsieur recognized us, knew my regular order and took extra time to chit chat..in Franglais. my hair girl greeted me in the street yesterday, quite out of context...'Bonjour Madame, etc" everyone greets Ruby, and now (some three months later!) a few are greeting me as well! mom, Madame Patron or Madame Capitaine is getting the royal treatment in all boat related endeavors as well. as a stranger in a strange land it is these little recognitions and acknowledgments...small starts on that web of inter-connectedness that can make a grey, raining and otherwise frustrating day bearable afterall.