When my freshman (high school) roommate came over to my bed while I was sleeping, woke me up and made me pretend to give her finger a blow job in front of her gaggle of friends to humiliate me.
Every single time someone said "but you have such a pretty face".
When the doctor, during my very first pelvic exam, slapped my thigh and said "What are we going to do about these saddle bags?"
When the school president asked "Which one is the smart one and which one is the pretty one?"
The time the guy started to go anal without asking.
The time the guy creeped his hand over to caress my thigh while his other hand was holding the hand of his girlfriend on my couch.
The time the two male business partners started talking about a female vendor: "How could someone that good looking smell so bad" as we waited for the meeting to begin. When the next party arrived, who was male and not their employee, they stopped talking.
The time a grown man pinned a sixteen year old me against the pole on a crowded train car and rubbed himself against my backside until he was yelled at and ran off at the next stop.
Every single time someone assumed that fat is an insulator from assault and a barrier to love.